Prayer and worship - alone and together
Joel Rehnström, Finland
Dear Friends,
" ... the fact of life comes first, its evaluation or interpretation
later. The human child first lives and subsequently thinks about his
living. In the cosmic economy insight precedes foresight. " (p.1228:1)
This philosophical statement makes me draw the conclusion, that while
thinking is not to be downgraded or underestimated, still living, action,
experiencing, implementation is the most valuable part of life. Therefore I
would also like us at the end of this presentation to practice together
some prayer and worship, so that we do not just talk and think about them,
even if that is important too. Such practice may seem a little strange to
some of you, as these things are very personal and intimate for many
people, and in the beginning it also takes some courage, but everyone can
of course participate as much as he or she wants to, or just remain
neutral. Still it is good to remember that "Spiritual development depends,
first, on the maintenance of a living spiritual connection with true
spiritual forces and, second, on the continuous bearing of spiritual fruit:
yielding the ministry to one's fellows of that which has been received from
one's spiritual benefactors. " (p.1095:6). In other words, if we want to
grow spiritually, then we should in one way or another cultivate our
relationship to God the Father and his associates.
But letīs first have some definitions and maybe some thoughts too: worship
should be directed to the Father, prayer to the Son. In our local universe
the Eternal Son is, as we know, represented by the Creator Son Michael and
his associate the Universe Mother Spirit, Mother Nebadon. Christ Micahel
and Mother Nebadon are our heavenly parents, and, as I see it, they have
their own communication channels, the Spirit of Truth and the Holy Spirit
to which we may connect and attune. Worship or devotion is completely
without self-interest, in prayer there tends to be a personal or creature
interest. In practice it would seem that the information or communication
finds its way, even if the address is a little faulty - as long as the
soulīs attitude is right. Weīll come back to worship later in this
presentation.
PRAYER
Regarding prayer there is a general advice in the Urantia-book on page
1002:6: " Pray only for values, not things; for growth, not for
gratification." - All this subject, prayer, is very large, and the book has
much to say on it, and I have just chosen a few quotes to shed some light
on it. You are welcome to cut in during the presentation, if something
relevant comes to your mind, and we can anyway have some discussion
afterwards here, and later on in smaller workshop groups.
To quiet down oneīs mind is, as I see it, an essential part of the praying
technique, so that the grip by the biologic electro-chemical system on
oneīs mind is being somewhat loosened. Soft music, hymns and the like, may
be a way to achieve this state of mind. The mental techniques became more
developed in the eastern world, but various forms of meditation are, as we
know, now widely used also in the west. Usually man functions in his brain
on the beta-level, about 21 impulses per second, but it is often thought
that spiritual communication functions best on the alfa-level, 7-14
imp./sec. But this statement is open to discussion. The goal is anyway to
reach the superconscious levels of the mind, not the subconscious levels.
But "No prayer can hope for an answer unless it is born of the spirit and
nurtured by faith." (p.1849:2). So, for this communication to be really
mutual it must function in spirit and in faith, in a God-relationship, in a
relationship with a devine entity or entities. How do we find such a
relationship? Generally either by growing naturally, or then through a
crisis experience of some kind, so that we become motivated by a deep
longing for God and finally agree to belong to him, finally give in to him.
Religious practices and symbols may prove helpful when we develope this
God-relationship and start functioning in this new spirit and faith
element. It resembles the way we gradually learn to swim. By and by we get
used to the new element , the water. We practice and practice, and one day
we dare to get deeply enough into the water - and we float. - Some people
have also learnt to swim when they have been suddenly thrown into the
water, but that is hardly recommendable!
There are many places in the Urantia-book where prayer is being discussed,
and Jesus taught about prayer on many occasions. We find these places in
the book when we need them, and I have just copied a few into this
presentation. In Paper 180, The Farewell Discourse, there is under section
2, The Vine and the branches, I think, an important statement: "If you
abide in me and my words live in you, you will be able to commune freely
with me, and then can my living spirit so infuse you that you may ask
whatsoever my spirit wills and do all this with the assurance that the
Father will grant us our petition." (p.1945:5)
As a comment to this statemt the book says: "But great sorrow later
attended the misinterpretation of the Master's inferences regarding prayer.
There would have been little difficulty about these teachings if his exact
words had been remembered and subsequently truthfully recorded. But as the record was made, believers eventually regarded prayer in Jesus' name as a sort of supreme magic, thinking that
they would receive from the Father anything they asked for. For centuries
honest souls have continued to wreck their faith against this stumbling
block. How long will it take the world of believers to understand that
prayer is not a process of getting your way but rather a program of taking
God's way, an experience of learning how to recognize and execute the
Father's will? It is entirely true that, when your will has been truly
aligned with his, you can ask anything conceived by that will-union, and it
will be granted. And such a will-union is effected by and through Jesus
even as the life of the vine flows into and through the living branches."
(p.1946:2)
We must remember that even if we are not Creators, we have after all been
created in the image of God. Therefore, we too have some creator abilities,
to a lesser degree, of course, and often hidden. But it is my view that the
closer our relationship is with the Universal Father and his will the more
easily our wishes come true and our plans are being realized, even so that
we have to be careful about what we think and visualize, or we could end up
a little like Jesus during the wedding at Cana!
Prayer is foremost a private thing:
"Jesus taught the twelve always to pray in secret; to go off by themselves
amidst the quiet
surroundings of nature or to go in their rooms and shut the doors when they
engaged in prayer." (p.1620:3)
But still:
"It is not strange that the apostles desired Jesus to teach them a model
prayer for believers. John the Baptist had taught his followers several
prayers; all great teachers had formulated prayers for their pupils."
(p.1620:2)
" He never taught a formal personal prayer, only group, family, or social
petitions. And he never volunteered to do that." (p.1620:5). Such a group
prayer is also Our Father who is in heaven, as it is given in the
Urantia-book on page 1620:
Our Father who is in heaven,
Hallowed be your name.
Your kingdom come; your will be done
On earth as it is in heaven.
Give us this day our bread for tomorrow;
Refresh our souls with the water of life.
And forgive us every one our debts
As we also have forgiven our debtors.
Save us in temptation, deliver us from evil,
And increasingly make us perfect like yourself.
" Group or congregational praying is very effective in that it is highly
socializing in its repercussions. When a group engages in community prayer
for moral enhancement and spiritual uplift, such devotions are reactive
upon the individuals composing the group; they are all made better because
of participation. Even a whole city or an entire nation can be helped by
such prayer devotions. Confession, repentance, and prayer have led
individuals, cities, nations, and whole races to mighty efforts of reform
and courageous deeds of valorous
achievement." (p.998:5)
The Our Father prayer in fact starts with worship. The first two lines are
clearly worship, devotion, maybe also the next two lines. In this way
prayer and worship may often be linked to each other, even if they are
different forms of communication.
Some further quotes on prayer: (p.1621:1-8)
"Prayer and its associated worship is a technique of detachment from the
daily routine of life, from the monotonous grind of material existence. It
is an avenue of approach to spiritualized self-realization and
individuality of intellectual and religious attainment."
"Prayer is an antidote for harmful introspection. At least, prayer as the
Master taught it is such a beneficent ministry to the soul. Jesus
consistently employed the beneficial influence of praying for one's
fellows. The Master usually prayed in the plural, not in the singular. Only
in the great crises of his earth life did Jesus ever pray for himself."
"Prayer is the breath of the spirit life in the midst of the material
civilization of the races of mankind. Worship is salvation for the
pleasure-seeking generations of mortals."
"As prayer may be likened to recharging the spiritual batteries of the
soul, so worship may be compared to the act of tuning in the soul to catch
the universe broadcasts of the infinite spirit of the Universal Father."
"Prayer is the sincere and longing look of the child to its spirit Father;
it is a psychologic process of exchanging the human will for the divine
will. Prayer is a part of the divine plan for making over that which is
into that which ought to be." (p.1621:1-8)
"Prayer is indeed a part of religious experience, but it has been wrongly
emphasized by modern religions, much to the neglect of the more essential
communion of worship. The reflective powers of the mind are deepened and
broadened by worship. Prayer may enrich the life, but worship illuminates
destiny." (p.1123:6)
WORSHIP
Worship, devotion, is more suited, maybe best suited, to group activities.
On page 65, section 3, True Worship, in the Urantia-book we read:
"Though the Paradise Deities, from the universe standpoint, are as one, in
their spiritual relations with such beings as inhabit Urantia they are also
three distinct and separate persons. There is a difference between the
Godheads in the matter of personal appeals, communion, and other intimate
relations. In the highest sense, we worship the Universal Father and him
only. True, we can and do worship the Father as he is manifested in his
Creator Sons, but it is the Father, directly or indirectly, who is
worshiped and adored."
"Worship is for its own sake; prayer embodies a self- or creature-interest
element; that is the great difference between worship and prayer. There is
absolutely no self-request or other element of personal interest in true
worship; we simply worship God for what we comprehend him to be. Worship
asks nothing and expects nothing for the worshiper. We do not worship the
Father because of anything we may derive from such veneration; we render
such devotion and engage in such worship as a natural and spontaneous
reaction to the recognition of the Father's matchless personality and
because of his lovable nature and adorable attributes." (p. 65:4,6)
And still further on the same theme:
"Worship is the highest privilege and the first duty of all created
intelligences. Worship is the conscious and joyous act of recognizing and
acknowledging the truth and fact of the intimate and personal relationships
of the Creators with their creatures. The quality of worship is determined
by the depth of creature perception; and as the knowledge of the infinite
character of the Gods progresses, the act of worship becomes increasingly
all-encompassing until it eventually attains the glory of the highest
experiential delight and the most exquisite pleasure known to created
beings." (p.303:6)
CONCLUSION
Dear friends, we canīt expect to reach such experiences on the level that
we now are on, but we too can express our deligt and thankfulness for
having a Heavenly Father. We can e.g. listen to devotional music and attune
to the spirit currents, and we can ourselves sing some devotional hymns.
Let us now in conclusion practice together some of these spiritual forms of
communication. Later on in the workshop groups we can then further
deliberate on these matters and maybe tell eachother about significant
prayer and worship experiences - our own or someone elseīs that we have
heard about.
I think that when we pray we can always ask for guidance and strength to do
the Fatherīs will. To ask for devine blessing is in fact such a prayer,
provided we remember that we are actually then asking for our own will to
be syncronized with the will of God. - So, let us sing together a hymn
that attunes our minds to a prayerful state, and while we sing we may
direct our longings to Christ Michael and Mother Nebadon in Salvington...
in faith trusting in the communication... and we may say in our minds:
Beloved heavenly parents, sources of the Spirit of Truth and the Holy
Spirit, we open our hearts to you, and we gladly receive your blessings for
these days and this work.
For worship I think devotional hymns are best suited, especially when we
worship together. So, let us finally sing a hymn or two together. - If you
donīt want to join in the singing, please keep an open mind, a neutral or
positive attitude... - Thank you all.